Parents frequently ask where to start the college conversation. The honest answer isn't a spreadsheet of schools; it's a single question: describe yourself in three sentences, using only things you've actually done.

Selective schools aren't assembling a class of generalists; they're assembling a class made up of specific contributors. One or two activities pursued for years, with a visible trajectory from member to officer to founder or lead, usually outweighs a list of eight clubs attended twice each.